237 – When You Don’t Know What the Next Step Is (and Why That’s Not a Problem)

What do you do when you don’t know what comes next? When clarity feels just out of reach and the uncertainty itself feels uncomfortable—even unsettling? In this episode, Michelle reflects on her own experience of sitting down to record without a clear plan and uses it as a doorway into a deeper conversation about uncertainty, control, and trust. She explores how diet culture, hustle culture, and even medicine condition us to fear not knowing—and why that fear often has more to do with nervous system activation than actual readiness to decide. This episode is an invitation to slow down, to recognize when urgency is driving your choices, and to consider that not knowing might be a necessary and meaningful part of your process—not a failure to fix.

In this episode, Michelle explores what happens when you don’t know the next step—and why that experience is far more human (and helpful) than we’ve been taught to believe.

She discusses:

  • Why not knowing feels so uncomfortable—and where that discomfort comes from
  • How diet culture and hustle culture both promise certainty and control
  • The nervous system’s role in urgency, overthinking, and premature decisions
  • Why uncertainty is often information, not danger
  • How the urge for clarity can show up with food, body image, relationships, and work
  • The difference between aligned action and action driven by discomfort
  • Why some seasons are meant for pausing, integration, and listening—not fixing
  • How body trust requires slowing down and tuning into subtle signals
  • What it really means to “stay present” instead of forcing answers

Michelle also shares a powerful reflection prompt to help you notice where you might be pressuring yourself to know more than you do right now—and what might shift if you allowed yourself to simply not know, just for today.

Reflection prompt from the episode:

Where in your life are you pressuring yourself to know more than you actually do right now?
And what might shift if you allowed yourself to not know—just for today?

As always, thank you for being here and for allowing this to be a space where certainty isn’t required and being human is enough.

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